What to do if I really liked the girl. How to like a girl. Simple and quick ways

To the question of how to please a girl, there is no single answer, but general recommendations   still there, and we will talk about it. But first, we specify: which girl? After all, it’s one thing to like a girl of 14 years, if it comes   about teenagers, and quite another - almost to an adult woman.

Where to begin

Whoever says anything, you need to start with the look. You often come across opinions that, they say, it does not matter how you look, the main thing is your inner world and actions. Of course, this is the main thing! But only after you have already met for a week or two. Our goal is to please, and there is no way to do without a neat look. Put on your best clothes - smart jeans, beautiful trousers, a fashionable shirt, and go to conquer your dream.

The only caveat: try to ensure that your clothes are not old-fashioned. Whatever views the girl holds in this matter, a costume from the era of the 60s is unlikely to attract her. Also, you don’t need to wear a tracksuit and sneakers, even if it’s comfortable for you. We are not in training and not in competition. I repeat: this is a first impression with direct communication.

How to communicate

Now about how to behave and what to tell the girl. The main thing - do not put out. I understand that it is difficult to behave naturally and confidently if you are overwhelmed with feelings: you are afraid to do something wrong, blurt out something out of place, in a word, spoil your impression of yourself. Many are closed in themselves in such cases and are silent. However, few girls like silent guys who are also shy about the same. What to do in these cases?

Understand that the girl does not bite, and that she is also the same person, with her own characteristics, and also, probably, with a bunch of complexes. If she even agreed to talk with you, then, probably, not just out of sports interest. Yes, even if so, you have every chance to translate this sporting interest into a much deeper affection. Talk to her at least about something. To start. If she was interested, she herself would pick up the conversation. If not, then do not immediately rush to another topic. You must look solid and confident in her eyes. If the topic is not interesting to her, just say: “Okay” or “Good!” and smile. The very fact that you started a conversation with her, came to the first date in a neat and decent way, communicate with her politely and culturally (this, too, by the way, is highly recommended) - all this will put you to her.

"Calm, only calm ...!"

Then take your time. If you are a temperamental person, moderate your ardor. This is especially important in order to please a girl older than you. Remember that most girls do not like overly persistent, even at times aggressive young people. Behaving assertively and violently, a girl of 15 years old can be pleasant, but not 25. Therefore, all that needs to be done is to regularly remind her of her presence, to behave naturally in communication with her, but by no means is vulgar and not brazenly. If she does not want to discuss something, let her know that you really accept it, do not insist. You don’t need long tirades like: "Well, if you don’t want to discuss this, then we won’t, I understand everything." - and so on in the same vein. It will sound pretentious and unnatural. Just say softly and calmly: "Well, we will not." You must look solid - it is this quality that appeals to men and young virgins, and mature women.

About interests and hobbies

If her interests do not cause you a feeling of absolute rejection, talk about them. If she likes music, movies, art, computer games, discuss this with her, but do not impose your addictions. You can voice them, talk about your hobbies, but in no case do not insist if she is completely uninteresting. She, too, will love them (to the extent that she can) just like you do her interests, but then.

What kind of guys do girls like

Girls love self-confident but not self-confident; persistent, but not arrogant; solid, but not stubborn; soft but not rags. And, no less important, solid and versatile. People often ask - what do women in men pay attention to first of all? In addition to appearance and manners, there is one more thing important quality   - stability. This is a special sensation that arises in a woman when she is convinced that this man is only her and will be faithful to her, no matter what happens, she will not change, push away, always support. Therefore, starting to communicate with a girl, you do not need to talk about what kind of macho you are - this will most often produce only the opposite effect.

Virtual dating

Look good confident and solid. And if you can’t look solid? So surprise her with the breadth of her horizons, tell me that you love, what you are fond of. This is especially true of how to like a girl in contact or in others social networks   and on the forums. You can make a good impression on the Internet, first of all, due to your outlook and a calm manner of communication - just then do not pump up and do not type too much on the keyboard. If you are communicating on the Internet or via SMS with a girl that you already know personally, then you will have cards in your hands.

The importance of being natural

Do not strain and communicate calmly and, if possible, naturally. Naturalness ... This applies not only to virtual dating. Just think how difficult it will be to later explain to your girlfriend that you are not what you seemed. This could be frustrating in the future. Of course, everything is surmountable, but it is always better to be who you are. You need to suppress your anger and shyness, but not true nature.

How to like a girl at school

In order to please a peer, two conditions must be observed:

• stand out from the crowd
• share her interests

They often laugh at guys when they come up with unusual hobbies. But they do it in order to be not like everyone else - what is wrong with that? One studies French and speaks it, the other enters the automobile section, the third goes on business courses. But often this is done solely with the aim of attracting the attention of a certain person, to whom without such hobbies the kid would never agree to approach. Therefore, if you consider yourself unremarkable (this, of course, is not true, but here neither I nor anyone else can dissuade you), find yourself such a hobby or start dressing differently, in general - don’t be like all.

Another condition for how to please a girl of 13 years old is to share her interests and even outlooks on life. Here you do not need to break yourself, but you need to find one of her main interests or views that does not cause you a negative attitude. But what if there are none? Then the counter-question: do you really want to be with this girl? Yet there must be something in common between you. Love for animals, music, movies that both like, going to the club, etc. etc.

How to like an ex-girlfriend

It is both simple and complex at the same time. Just because you know this person very well, you know about her manners, what to expect from her, almost everything about her hobbies. Is it difficult because you ever tried to change yourself? Not easy, right? Moreover, violent acts do not lead to anything good and suppressed qualities then flare up with even greater force. So is there really no way out? There is. You must sincerely accept the fact that if you want to make your girlfriend happy, you will have to sacrifice something for her. It must be remembered that love and relationships in general are built primarily on mutual (!) Sacrifice. If this is not at least on the one hand, there can be no talk of harmonious union. Or live alone - some live so perfectly. But since you want to be together, you need to show that you are at least ready for something for her sake.

Modern young people are very lucky; on the Internet you can find a lot of information on any topic. Today, for example, thanks to the requests of our readers, we will tell you about how any girl will like what you need to do for this. Here you will find for yourself good advice   and recommendations. Take them seriously and no offense. It is impossible to give advice without paying attention to any shortcomings. Therefore, tune in that not everything will seem pleasant and easy to you.

Young people are often worried about whether or not they like someone. Some of them have low self-esteem and they think that nobody can like them at all, while others think that girls do not like them because they are ugly. How reasonable are these concerns? What needs to be done to please any girl? How to attract attention?

How to like any girl?

Now we will analyze the question “How do any girls like you?” In parts and you yourself will understand that “any” is impossible to like, since this category includes both girls engaged in prostitution or drug addiction, just dumbasses and sloths, and girls “daughters of millionaires or stars. " They all have completely different interests and claims for life and for guys.

I think the question implies some average girls. Think about the extent to which you want girls to like you. Just to be interested in being with you in the same company, in communication, or so that she wants to marry you?

In general, I will build on the average girl (but not quite from the gray mass), and the degree to which she wants to like you, I will consider "a very nice guy." This is important because there are a lot of girls who will be crazy if you just pay attention to them and throw a couple of compliments. For some, one compliment for a whole month is enough to remember, you still won’t know how to get rid of it. And the other of all your compliments and money is not enough for her to pay attention to you. Do you understand?

Therefore, if you want to seriously and permanently draw the attention of someone specifically, you need to get to know this person better. If you just want to be remembered and impress, then it’s enough to be. To be intrigued in one phrase, to make you think about yourself, consider the tips from the article at the link above and

To like girls, in addition to the above, you need to learn how to make them laugh. Any girl relaxes in the company of a person who amuses her and creates a good mood. And if this person is also smart, patient, knows how to control himself and is ready to cooperate, then you can count on special attention. Also to like good girls   (in principle), you need to clearly know what they guys don't like it for sure   and eradicate all these girlish horrors. You can find them in an article entitled "

You will definitely pay attention if ...

If you learn: to compliment, to keep yourself in touch, keep up conversations on various topics, take care of yourself, make small gifts, ask tactful questions, organize interesting walks (games, contests) and so on.

In general, it comes down to hard work or laziness. That is, a hardworking person will work on appearance, intelligence, find out about an object of interest, look for ways to please ... And, as a result, he will definitely find it. With the lazy, the opposite is true .... He expects that everything will appear on his own by himself, without effort: he does not care much for himself, does not follow the vocabulary and development of intelligence, is not interested in anything, which means he will not be able to interest a beautiful and smart girl.

Look at the pictures of these guys. It’s easy to see who the girls will react negatively and who positively. A pleasant man is well-groomed and openly looks into the eyes. It’s an unpleasant type and looks with a certain tilt of the head and the smile is crooked, and not well-groomed ... You yourself choose with which facial expression and hairstyle to walk ... Be careful.

It turns out whose phrase is "nobody pays attention to me"? That's right, this is the phrase of all the sloths. This nagging of those who think that everything good is on him, including the attention of people, should just fall by itself. And for what, one wonders? Do you persistently develop your abilities? Studying diligently? Can you open your own business? Do you write articles or pictures? Do you play the guitar? Do you solve complex problems in your mind? Do you work hard to help parents? Can you organize a hiking trip or at least a pic-nick for friends? What can you do and what qualities have you worked on so that others pay attention to you?

All manifestations of a person’s character are necessarily reflected in his appearance and home. Suppose a person can hide his home, but how will he hide his mattress in appearance and character, the poverty of his tongue, his bad manners, narrow thinking? And you can see all this well already at the first communication.

I called “weakness” here a weakness of character, a tendency to become addicted, an inability to defend one’s beliefs (if any) complete absence   beliefs and goals in life. Mattresses are lifeless, amorphous creatures that do not know what to strive for, they are too lazy to strain to think, observe, think, organize. Of course, all this affects the appearance. The clothes and posture of such people are also shapeless. To put them in order, you need to work hard.

Impudent people are formed from another type of sloths who saw that there are people (mattresses) who do not know what to do and what to strive for and decided to find these activities in the form of servicing their person. Once it happened, two it turned out - a habit is formed, which is transferred to a neglect of other people. In general, the conclusion is the same for everyone. Fight with laziness diligently! Determine which particular girls you want to like and with what, the ensuing consequences.

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Most men find it very difficult for girls to please. Of course, many still find different ways   to do this. More often than not, courage is necessary for success with the girls, without which you simply cannot come and talk to her. For most, this is really difficult and ends not entirely successfully: shaking legs, empty eyes, uncertain voice ...

If you intend to find your soulmate, be sure to read TOP 10 ways to impress girls. So guys, let's look at them in more detail.

  it great way   win over and make a good impression. Get to know

Look directly into the eyes during a conversation and let her know that you are really interested in what she says. Try not to look at the rest of her body. She may feel uncomfortable.

9. Take care of yourself

  Personal care is an integral part of male personality. When going on a date with a girl, a man must make sure that he looks good. Take care of yourself: your face should be smooth-shaven, clothing should be neat and tidy. Do not overdo it with perfume.

It can push a girl away. Make a fashionable hairstyle. Get your hair straight before a date. Following these tips, you will look attractive and neat at the same time.

8. Be a “man”

Girls like men who take into account their interests. You can help the girl with the coat or gently slide the chair. They may feel a little awkward, but practice shows that these gestures are pleasant to them. The girl will feel happy, and perhaps will consider you as a man for a serious relationship.

7. Make friends with her friends

  If you find yourself at a party and see a beautiful girl in the company of friends, then act without further thought. This is a great chance for you. You can start a conversation with your friends and find out important things about her. During the fun with the girl and her friends, watch the behavior. One wrong gesture, one incorrect utterance and impression will be spoiled.

6. Avoid embarrassing situations

  A woman needs attention from the guy she is dating. So, answering a call or dialing text message   during a date, you can offend this girl. She will feel awkward and offended at the same time, and will consider that you have more important activities than her.

5. Ask harmless questions

  During a meeting, it is important to have a dialogue, while many men talk a lot, and the girl simply does not have the opportunity to wedge herself into a monologue. In this situation, the girl will just be bored. Engage in dialogue with the girl and listen carefully to her.

If you notice that she is shy and cannot start a conversation, ask leading questions, for example, what are her preferences. This will interest the girl and she will relax. She will see interest and be imbued with sympathy for you.

4. Open the doors for the girl

  Respect plays an important role. Let the girl know that you respect and value her. She will be impressed. As a true gentleman, you must open the door for a girl when you enter a building. For example, you drove up to a restaurant and parked a car. The man should go out first and help the lady get out of the car. It will flatter her. Do not neglect this advice.

3. Tell the girl compliments

  Girls monitor their appearance and carefully select the outfit. This is because they want everyone to admire them. Give due attention, say compliments. For example, you can say that she looks great. Showering a girl with compliments, you will surely like her.

  When asking a girl for advice, you will certainly conquer her. She will understand that she really important person in your life. Each time, being interested in her opinion, she will only fall in love with you, and feel comfortable.

  Radiate your positive when you are near a girl. Tell us about your benefits and make it clear that you are the best guy in town. In addition, reinforce words with actions. Do not be idle talk.   Telling real things about yourself, and even more so confirming them in practice, you will undoubtedly attract a girl to you. Thus, the goal will be achieved, and you will enjoy the relationship with the girl.

How to please girls. The most important secret!

This question is often asked by guys who have not yet managed to find their intrinsic value. This time, let's start by trying to figure out what qualities girls appreciate in men.

To begin with, I want to talk about the fact that there are two types of men in relation to themselves and to people around them. The first type is a person of low importance, the second is a person of high importance. Their difference is cardinal. If the first one is worried that people think about him, he seeks his value in the opinions of other people about him, then the second understands his own value and this value does not depend on the opinions of other people.

Yes, he may not be good at everything, he knows about it. He may not be the best in everything; he does not need it. He knows how good he is and he uses it. He is on the meaningless opinions of others. That is what constitutes his attitude to himself. Other people's opinions can somehow correct his behavior and his inner values, if these people are worth it, if they are significantly higher than him.

But the opinion of any "small things" does not affect him in any way. Moreover, it does not affect, as a rule, in either the positive side, nor negative. He doesn't need it. He initially knows his worth. And this price, I repeat, does not depend on the opinions of other people. And of course he knows. About what is really interesting to him.

What kind of guys do girls like

Girls love guys of the second type. Although, of course, they meet with the first. And the reason for this is simple - there are not so many men who think like a person of high value.

I hope you realize that moving from the first category to the second is quite realistic, but for this you will have to work on yourself, on your own beliefs, on your own values \u200b\u200band on your awareness of your own value. This transition is not fast, but not very long. A few months are enough. However, on its own without external assistance   such a transition is practically unrealistic.

Let's get back to the question “how do you like a girl?”. Guys from the second category will not ask such questions. Therefore, in this article I will try to be as useful as possible for people who have not yet managed to realize their own value, the independence of this value from other people.

For example, did you have that? How did you behave in a similar situation, what were your thoughts in your head? I do not like to wait, but my attitude to such situations is this: it gives me a reason to punish her. I will certainly take advantage of this reason) But before it was different. I could just turn around and leave) Ndaaa ... it was shitty earlier)))

Some well-known facts. I promise a bit-)

So, I do not want to be banal, but I feel that I have to. Girls can treat guys with different sides: as a friend, as a mentor, as a man or sexual object, or as a husband, i.e. like the father of her children. And this is not necessarily a genetic father, this is the person who will help her, raise her offspring. I suspect that, most likely, you are interested in the question of how the girl will like it, just like a man, as a sexual object.

How to like a woman? What do girls like in men? If you ask this question to a girl, the most popular answer will be - a sense of humor, sincerity, sexuality and confidence. We consider separately each element below.

Sense of humor . Whoever says anything, humor can be learned, even there are special trainings for this. . However, in this article I will not teach humor. Of the recommendations - read jokes, funny stories, bash.im (formerly bash.org). There are many funny stories that you might find useful in life. Most importantly, there is how people live funny situations. From here you can understand the algorithm and even try to use it.

Sexuality.   It is clear that a non-sexual man will not be attractive to a girl in terms of sex, this is logical. What is sexuality? Sexuality in itself also includes several other qualities. The first is appearance. You can talk a lot about the appearance, and somehow I will devote an article to this.

But, in short - it's neatly selected clothes, neat, clean. The second is positioning yourself as a man, as the main thing in relation to them, as one who decides for her what she should do, who takes responsibility for how I will develop your relationship.

Naturally, this is not given to every man, if only because most men are afraid that the girl will not like his behavior. But we are not talking about what men have not been given. We analyze the basics of attraction. It is also necessary to introduce non-verbalism into sexuality: how he communicates, how he is in space, how he sits, how he stands, what his gestures are, what kind of facial expressions, what kind of voice, loudness of speech. Girls love a sexy voice - this is a low calm voice, mixed with have a good mood   and sexuality. By the way, there is a big one. Who would you rather be?

Sincerity . I think none of you want a person nearby who can lie, deceive, who can do something quietly, which cannot be trusted. Especially if this is the girl with whom in the future you want to build a serious strong relationship. The same goes for girls. Want to know how to like a girl? Be sincere!

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Not ideal, girls often do not want to get to know you and give their phone number, then you should be interested in the question: “How do you like a girl?” Perhaps, walking along the street, have you ever seen a beautiful young lady who was walking by the hand with a not-so- then a cool guy. You thought: “What is that dude better than me? Why does he have such a cool girl, but I don’t? ” Have you ever wondered why she agreed to date this guy? What did she find in him that you don’t have? In this article you will find the answer to the question - how can a girl like you.

First of all, be very aware important rule: "There is no man on earth who everyone would like!". Even in God, and even not everyone believes. Presidents of many countries are hated by millions of people. Similarly, in a relationship. For every guy there are girls who like him. Your task is to find these girls, and not to seek those who do not need you. There are girls who will definitely like you. So, speaking of that guy, how is he better than you? He is not better, he just found his girlfriend and liked her for who he is. He suffered denial, humiliation, but he achieved his goal. There is no such person who would not be denied. It’s just that someone has setbacks over and over again, but for someone very rarely. But let's get back to our main question: "how do you like a girl?"

1. Understand what you can give the young lady.
  Before you meet, it’s important to understand this. Think about your strengths. Perhaps it’s easy for you to flirt with a girl or you look good. Perhaps you have a normal character, or you play sports, do not drink and do not smoke. Take a piece of paper and write everything for which a girl might like you. It is very important. I wrote about this exercise in an article:.

2. Improve yourself in different directions.
  It can be: sports, interesting acquaintances, making money, hobbies. The problem of many men is that they drop out of school, work, thinking that the most important thing is to find beautiful girl. Do not put relationships first. You are a man, and you must think about the future.

3. Work, improve living conditions.   Make money, become social active personworthy of the attention of others. Do not be like those people who believe that relationships are paramount. Only in this way can a woman please.

4. Become an interesting man.
  For seduction, you need to be a guy who stands out among others. Do not behave identically to the rest. Become charismatic, stand out with your behavior. In the future, women themselves will pay attention to you.

5. Learn to express your thoughts correctly.
  Watch your conversation. With a small vocabulary, achieve good result   It will be very difficult in a relationship. Girls love ears. You should not tell them everything that comes to mind. Simply, if you know how to correctly state your idea, then it makes you sexy in the eyes of many women, and the question "how to please a woman?" Will cease to be relevant. By the way, I already wrote. Be sure to read this article.

6. Look at yourself from a critical perspective.
  Each time you leave your home, think about the following: “Do those beauties you dream of dream of you?” Perhaps you smile well? Do you dress cool? Do you look good? When you undress, will you be proud of your body? What do you want to change in yourself? Not only in words, but through their actions.

7. Do not show what you want.
  A woman should always be sure that you have a lot of girls who want to not just be your friends, but strive for something more. If you show that you want sex, then your value in her eyes will fall to the plinth.

What are the signs that girls distinguish "needy"?
  Sometimes you can impersonate your behavior:

• You can call the young lady too often, several times in a row;
• You want too much time to talk with her;

If you met in a club, then you go for a woman. Sometimes, this manifests itself in your appearance:

• Looking gaze;
• Too many emotions on the face or voice when the young lady is talking to you;
• You are too upset if she does not look at you;

These are examples of actions that speak of a young man who belongs to the category of “needy”.

8. Never show disrespect to a woman, especially if she is interested in you.
  Each girl has a choice: to communicate with you or not. She has full right   refuse you. If she doesn’t want to talk with you, then you didn’t interest her. If she says she doesn’t meet on the street, don’t tell her that she’s a fool and don’t know which guy is losing. No need to be rude to a girl, no matter under what circumstances. You are just familiar to her. The man who turned to her, and then showed his disrespect. Think it yourself, is it necessary?

Become a man with whom your friends will not be bored. Feel the mood of people who are near you. Let women laugh at your stories and take pride in meeting a man like you.

10. Act. Then everything will change.
  No theory will give anything without real action. Do not be afraid to do experiments. Nothing bad will happen if you change and become better. You will be attractive and sexy for many women. Find out what you can and are ready to do for this.

Well, probably all for today. Now you know how to please a girl who did not like you before. If you want to change your life and become successful, you will have to work.