When the girl said do what you want. How to understand a girl and what she means when she speaks

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And there may be 2 situations:

• You met a girl not so long ago and spent your first date
• You have been dating a girl for a long time

Now let's look at these situations in detail. with life examples.

Situations No. 1

Basil guy by chance met a girl on the Internet, and after several months of communication, he dared to invite her on a date and the girl agreed, they met in a cafe and had a good evening, where they talked a lot and Vasily talked about himself.

A few days later Vasily decided to invite the girl on a second date  and they got the following dialogue:

Basil: Hello Kat, let's meet tomorrow night.

Katya: Sorry, but I can't tomorrow very busy!!!

Vasily: Well, come on the weekend

Katya: On the weekend will not workI'm leaving with friends for a summer cottage!

Basil: I see, when it will be free timeCall me, always glad.

Katya: Good (hangs up)

But after that the girl did not call him.

Why so and why the girl says that she is constantly busy with something.

In fact, on a date, Katya realized that Vasily was a wimp and he did not fit her at all.

What mistakes did Vasily make:

• Not the ability to improvise  and tell interesting stories

If in all your stories you are full of loshara, then the girl begins to treat you the same way. Plus, if the guy is boring, she will get bored

• Not the ability to get acquainted

If you meet on the Internet, the girl initially understands that, most likely, you are afraid of real communication, that is, you would never meet her live because of fear

• Appearance and smell

If you don’t have a sense of style, then most likely you dress like a clown or a gray mouse, plus your smell plays a huge role, if it stinks of you then everything is gone.

Situation number 2

Vasily meets a girl for a very long time, for example, 2 years, but meets with a girl 1-2 times a week in a cafe or movie theater, due to the fact that the girl very busy.

In fact the girl has already concluded about the guyHe doesn’t suit her at all, and she meets him only because he entertains and amuses her.

But as soon as she will find a worthy guy, she will immediately leave him.

So, I answer the question " If a girl says she’s busy?»

It means that your level of development with girls is very low  and the girls understand this very well, and such a guy for serious relationships  completely unsuitable. Since she needs a real man.

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1. Women almost always know what the male answer to their asked question will be.
  2. When a woman says: "How funny." This means that now it will be not funny for you either.
  3. Not every girl who says, “You're cool,” means that she wants to have sex.
  4. If you play poker with a girl, play only for undressing.
5. Nice women  they don’t easily get it, and with girls of easy virtue it doesn’t end with anything good.
6. If a woman is annoyed at any of your petty mistakes, she is not angry with the mistakes, but you yourself.
  7. If a girl is beautiful, it does not mean that she is stupid.
  8. A man should know that many, if not all, omissions can be resolved by your recognition of sympathy or love.
  9. The first step should go from you, you should not be uncomfortable, ashamed, or something else, this right actions  men. Call her, write or visit.
  10. Be the kind of man you would like your future daughter to meet.
  11. If the relationship with the girl to hell leave her first, do not waste time. Do not forget to part with her as carefully as possible, because there are enough bitches among women.
  12. Man know, if you deceive a woman, she can forgive, but she will never forget.
  13. If a girl tells you about her problems, this does not mean that she is a whiner and complains, it means that she will be trusted.
  14. Do not call her “baby” or other gentle words of kindness before you form a relationship and all that. Otherwise, she will decide that you call all the girls.
  15. Do not forget to express admiration or compliment the girl.
  16. If she answers your messages or SMS quite quickly, it means that at least you are interesting to her.
  17. To make a woman feel especially, you do not need a lot of money.
  18. Girls do not like too good guys, a man should have eggs and she should feel it.
  19. You should know that she will ask you the same question 1000 times in order to see how your answers change. Girls like to check guys.
  20. Never underestimate the mental abilities of a girl - it will be worse.
  21. They also need a guy at night, just like you a girl.
  22. If her breast size is less than 2, this is not a reason not to meet her. In the end, she's still growing!
  23. If you see that a girl constantly makes her lips a duckling in the photo, she usually gives on a first date. We checked.
  24. A girl involved in sports is probably the best thing that can happen to you in bed, she is unlikely to deceive your expectations.
  25. Every time she cries because of you, there may be someone who will make her smile.
  26. Pregnancy and disease are not a myth - protect yourself and her.
  27. Do not be afraid to meet and kiss a girl in briquettes; she may be worth more than others.
  28. You should know that men's eau de toilette acts on women as weapons of mass destruction. Of course in normal quantities.
29. You can not make a woman happy, do not interfere with another.
  30. Not every girl can be conquered, try the following.
  31. Two words by phone or SMS: “Good morning” can make her think about you all day.
  32. Do not make her ready in 15 minutes, but know: girls who gather and dress in just 5 minutes exist.
  33. Never compare it with others, in extreme cases, it should be better by 300%. Also, never talk about your exes, much less bad things.
  34. If you forgive her, then do it quickly and decisively.
  35. When a girl says that she is cold, congratulations, this means that you brake and already 5 minutes ago had to hug her.
  36. Do not joke evil over a girl; she may not forgive.
  37. Do not tell the details of the relationship with your girlfriend to friends, especially when it comes to sex.
  38. Women always notice the gentleman and the corresponding attitude towards them.
  39. Do not make a problem out of trifles, you should be a solution to problems, not a source.
  40. A woman will never say that she wants to have sex. If you wait for her, then there will definitely not be sex. If you just sit and talk about higher matters, do not be surprised that she will soon get up and leave.
  41. You must know the secret of warm rain! If it started to rain, kiss her, even if you have never kissed. It's all about romantic films.
  42. Playboy, you can drag around for 100 girls and not have success with them, but you can date one and the remaining 99 girls will dream of you.
  43. If you want more than one-time sex with a girl, then for the second time, you still have to have high-quality sex during the first.
  44. Man, you know, girls do not wait more than 15 minutes and you should not check it.
  45. If you come to visit a girlfriend, bring ice cream, cake, chocolate bar or a piece of cake.
  46. \u200b\u200bIf a girl says: "Everything is fine, do not worry." Most likely she’s not doing well and it’s time for you to start worrying.
  47. Girls are always right, even if they are wrong. I hope you correctly understood this phrase.
  48. Do not try to fully understand the woman, it still will not work. We are too different. It's like a magician’s secrets. If you know them, then believe in a fairy tale and wonders will not work. Do you need it?
  49. Women do not like to wait; impatient conquer them.
  50. Love always requires sacrifice, be prepared for it.

It is possible, in a semi-humorous expression, that all men are from Mars, and all women are from Venus, there is some truth, because in the life of every man there was at least one case when he did not understand what the representative of the fair sex wanted to tell him. And it seems that the woman speaks Russian, and builds phrases correctly, and all her words are separately understood by the man, but what she wants to say, what meaning she puts into her words, is not clear. And if this woman was an outsider, this is not so bad, but if a guy misunderstands his girlfriend, he can seriously quarrel with her.

Of course, all the girls are different, and they behave differently in communication and in relationships, but there are some phrases that under certain conditions are likely to be pronounced by each representative of the fair sex. Knowing such popular phrases of girls and their interpretation, you can better understand the fair sex, and you will also know what the girl wants to hear when pronouncing this or that phrase. Consider the most common and popular phrases of girls and their interpretation, as well as determine what you need and what you don’t need to say in response to these expressions.

The phrase of the girl "Oh all"

The phrase "Oh everyone!" became popular relatively recently thanks to worldwide network  - This expression began to be used by both girls and boys when they needed to quickly finish a boring argument or chat. Very quickly, the phrase “Oh everything” began to be used not only on the Internet, but also in real communication, and very often this expression can be heard from a girl during a dispute or conversation on an uninteresting topic for her.

The meaning of the phrase.  Having heard from your beloved, girlfriend, or random interlocutor, “Oh everyone,” know that this phrase, depending on the context of the situation, can mean the following:

• "I'm sick of arguing with you on this subject."
• "Each of us will remain in our opinion anyway"
• "How much can you talk about this?"
• "I'm not interested in hearing your story / opinion about it."

Obviously, none of the meanings of the phrase “Oh everything” can be called positive, therefore, having heard this expression, you need to give the correct answer to it, and not “add fuel to the fire” and provoke the development of the conflict.

Correct answer.  So that the girl is not offended, it’s best to answer her “Oh everything” like this:

• "Ok, let's not argue over trifles. Let's talk better about something more interesting."
• "Each of us is right in his own way. Let's leave this topic, tell me better how your day went / what are your plans for tomorrow and so on."
• "Yes, it doesn’t matter. But today I saw / recognized / invented ..."

Incorrect answer.  If your girlfriend or girlfriend tells you “Oh everything”, do not answer her the following (unless, of course, you want to quarrel with her):

• "What, the arguments are over?"
• "All of you girls say," Oh all, "when you have nothing to say in essence."
• "No, not all! Listen further ..."

Phrase Girl "As You Want"

The situation is familiar when you ask something about a girl, are interested in her opinion, and she answers with a short phrase "As you want"? If yes, then you are also familiar with the perplexity caused by this answer, because it is not at all clear whether the girl really offers you to find a solution yourself or if she was offended by something.

The meaning of the phrase.  The girl’s phrase “As you want” can have different interpretations, and you need to pay attention to the situation and the reason on which this phrase was said. Depending on the situation, the expression "as you want" may mean:

• "I don't care, decide for yourself"
• "I have now and I do not want to talk about anything"
• "I'm not quite sure I want this, but let's try."
• "I have already expressed my opinion to you on this issue 100 times, but if you still haven’t heard me, I don’t see any reason to repeat it 101 times, so do it as you want."

Correct answer.  Any relationship, especially a love one, should be based on trust and mutual understanding, therefore it is better to make important decisions together, taking into account the opinions and wishes of both. Therefore, if a girl says "As you want," it is better to try to find out her opinion by answering her with the following:

• "It's important for me to know what you think about this."
• "If you are not in the mood to discuss this issue now, let's talk about it later."

Incorrect answer.  In order not to get a quarrel on empty place, in response to "As You Want," it’s better not to say:

• "I see you don't give a damn about me"
• "Yes, in fact, I was going to do as I want"
• "Then I don't care either"

The phrase of the girl "I will not be offended"

Most likely, the phrase "I will not be offended" you will hear from the girl when you tell her that you are going to do something that she does not like (do not go with her to visit her friends or relatives, cancel the date to meet with friend, you can’t meet her from work, etc.). After hearing this phrase, the guys are trying to understand whether the girl really is not offended, or is she already offended?

The meaning of the phrase.  Depending on the situation, occasion and off, the phrase "I will not be offended" may be interpreted as follows:

• "I understand everything and really will not be offended"
• "I’m a little offended, but I won’t show you this, because I understand that in these circumstances you cannot do otherwise"
• "I was offended, but I see no reason for you to talk about it, because you still do it your own way"

Correct answer.  So that the girl really is not offended, especially if you, due to unforeseen circumstances, had to cancel a date with her or postpone some common affairs, it is better to answer her phrase "I will not be offended" like this:

• "I'm sorry that the circumstances are so. I'm glad that you understand everything, you are my best."

Incorrect answer.  Even if the girl really was not offended, she would be angry when she heard the following words in response to her “I will not be offended”:

• "So that's great"
• "Yes, to me, in general, it doesn’t matter"
• "Take offense - do not be offended, I will not change my mind"

The phrase "I think"

If the girl answers “I will think” to a question that implies the answer “Yes” or “No”, this is not very pleasant, because you wanted certainty right now. Contrary to popular belief, the female “I will think” does not always mean “No,” and in order to better understand a girl, often enough at the moment when she promised to think. For example, if a girl looks you directly in the eye, doesn’t “close” you with her arms crossed or with foreign objects (handbag, papers, etc.), and her pose is relaxed enough, most likely, she will give you the answer a little later You are counting.

The meaning of the phrase.  By saying, “I will think,” a girl may mean the following:

• "I want the same as you, but I will play a little, making you worry"
• "I want the same thing as you, but I'm a little afraid, so I need time to convince myself."
• "This is very unexpected, and I need time to make a decision."
• "I do not want the same as you, but also I do not want to upset you with a direct refusal"
• "I do not want the same thing as you, but I will not upset you - suddenly in the future I will change my mind or I will need something else from you"

Correct answer.  To persuade a girl to make the decision you need, you can say something like this:

• "Yes, I understand that such an important decision is difficult to make right away, but I’m sure that you are a smart girl, so you will think it over properly and make a positive decision."

Incorrect answer.  Do you want the girl’s phrase “I'll think” to exactly mean “No”? Then answer this phrase like this:

• "What, in my eyes say" No "scary?"
• "Smart people don’t need to think long to make a decision."
• "Are you trying to culturally send me off? It won't work, I know your intentions perfectly"
• "Eh, all my ex-girlfriends told me they would think ..."

The phrase "What are you thinking?"

The situation is familiar: you have a great time on a date, watch a movie together or lie in bed and suddenly your girlfriend looks at you and asks "What are you thinking about?" After this phrase, you will think for sure what she wants to hear and whether to tell her that at that very moment you thought about your work or say something else.

The meaning of the phrase.  When asking “What are you thinking about?”, Most often a girl implies one of two things:

• "You look like you are completely lost in yourself and you don’t notice me at all. So explain to me what’s for you this moment  more important than me? "
• “I doubt that you like me and that you are well with me. I’m afraid that right now you are thinking about how to abandon me. Dispel my fears and convince me otherwise!”

Correct answer. When asking this question, the girl first of all wants to make sure that you are interested in it and you do not regret that you are spending time with her now, so it’s best not to say the girl’s phrase "What are you thinking about?" answer something like this:

• "About the fact that I am now very well with you"

Incorrect answer.  The girl wants you to spend time with her thinking about her and not about something else. Therefore, to her question, "What are you thinking?" better not to answer:

• "About what my boss is an incompetent fool"
• "About which bar tomorrow to go with friends."